Dirty Macking VS Macking

I wanted to touch on this subject since I´ve had a few e-mails from dudes asking me shit like “how do I fuck this chick” or  “How do I cheat on my girl without making it hot?” or half assed game questions in general.

The game is ass backwards. And a lot of dudes have a False impression to the game.

Dirty Macking: Is deceptive game plain and simply. 

This is the prime example of dog connotations that Women give to guys that have done them dirty in other words played them.

Dirty Macks are the type of dude that will tell a Female they "love them" when they really don`t to try and get a piece of ass.

Dirty Macks in my opinion also fit the description of a "Dusty Nigga" with a "Thugh Mentality" let`s be honest in the hood a thugh is the lowest of the low lifes and his "game" is no different it`s always on some "Getting over on a female tip". 

I`ve even come across dusty dirty macks that will purposely have kids by different hoodrats to live off the goverment and in some rare cases their kids. 

Dirty Macks are also a dudes who still want to cheat low key- but find themselves in a relationship to a Female they have lied to be with her in the first place. 

Dirty Macks are often referred to by Females as players because they often just want to fuck females by deceiving them and getting over on them somehow.

These are just a few ways to describe a "Dirty Mack" or course there is more but you get the idea.

A mack is the total opposite of a dirty mack. A mack´s game is based on integrity.

A mack is a man of means-a dude about something! With his game tight and a different outlook of life-a dude that can actually upgrade any Female he deals with especially on a mental level.

Notice the difference from a dirty mack where his main objective is to get over on a females wheas,

To a true thorough mack being on top of his game is his main priority NOT being on top of a female.

A mack is honest and upfront about what he does and the women he deals with.

A macks game is all about strategy and usually and usually only deal with dimes or Women that bring more than pussy to the table.

A mack chooses tangibles over pussy-if both are obtainable “coo” but tangibles prevail over a piece of ass.

All in all Macking always gives you better results with Women long term!. 

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Revamp Yourself

Let´s be honest when we first meet our significant other ( Man/Woman ) we are excited about who they are, what they like, how their interest coincide with ours and so on.

But on the other side of the coin, when we enter into a relationship with this person, we tend to know everything about them what they like, how to push their buttons, their “true colors”, what they usually wear and they become somewhat “predictable”. 

I´ve had the privilege to socialize with a lot of Women from all walks of life, and from my own personal experience-I learned that most Women that were in relationships ( mine included) started to get bored with repetition. Familiarity does breed contempt. 

This is the equivalent to : Watching a rerun on your favorite show, passing a video game and then playing it after, reading a book over and over, eating the exact same thing day in and day out, and so on.

Spontaneity makes our life more interesting. 

Now when you are in a relationship the best approach aside from being “mysterious” that obviously gone out the window; is being a challenge and revamping your image. That´s right being a challenge!.

Here are some excellent ways to revamp yourself and challenge yourself to an upgrade

Stick to YOUR new year´s resolution

·         We always seem to make half ass resolutions for a better year, it´s when we see our significant other sticking to their guns that we being to realize we need to step it up.

Get up earlier than your significant other

·         I remember when I was living with an ex of mine, I had to get up at 5:00 am to drive to San Francisco, now I noticed something in my ex´s demeanor she looked at me as a quality Man something about this scared her in a good way.

Get a Hobby

Stop breathing behind your Woman´s neck and stop hounding her for sex 5 times a day. Get your ass out the house or inside the garage and take on a hobby. This will give you and your mate some breathing space.

Change your wardrobe

·         Most people notice when someone gets a haircut or has on a nice pair of shoes, jeans, and clothes. ( Though they don´t say anything)

Change up what you wear to get your Woman to scratch her head and wonder what is up with you.

Subconsciously upgrade your Female 

·         This has got to be one of the most important ones I remember when I was without work due to the economy in the US. I was living with an ex of mine and though I was literally working my ass off to get work it was hard. She would go to work while I worked on getting work.


As a Man I felt like I needed to get back on my feet quick and be on top of my game soon!.




As a Man one should always give off this vibe to subconsciously get your Woman to upgrade herself. A Man´s job is to get his ass out there during the day hustle and get this Money.

Check Yourself

·         Every now and then we tend to drift into our “comfort zone” I think in life one of the hardest lessons to learn is self-discipline.

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Checking yourself before you are told by your Woman that you are falling off and realizing where you honestly need improvement.

The movie “The Break Up” kind of touched on this where Jennifer Anniston´s character seemed to be the one upgrading the relationship though Vince had his own way of doing so.

These are just some of the ways you can revamp and change your style to keep your Woman off balance in a good way.

I think failing to do is what causes most Women to “throw in the towel” and get bored in a lot of relationships.

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Isolated In The Game Pt 2

It´s been a while since I´ve posted. I´ve had a lot on my plate, and as a reader of real mack asked “Do you have help on the stuff you write?” The answer is NO, I do it all alone.

And I´ve been hustling doing my thing which has kept me busy which leads me to a thought I had recently while being out in the field doing my thing

In this game it seems that through all the trials and tribulations that I´ve been through NO one has really gave me a thorough recipe on how to really deal with it. 

It seems everyone has an approach on the situation. And ultimately the person you speak with can only share their “experience” on the situation you may be dealing with. And it´s really up to YOU to take heed to that story and make full use of it.

For example,

If you ever been in a relationship that didn´t work that really moved you. One would generally seek all the help and motivation one could find to surpass the situation for the sake of preserving the integrity your internal empire and well-being in general.

Let´s face it no Woman wants to see their Man NOT being able to “hold his own”. Your own family, but aside from that

YOU don´t want to see yourself in a fucked up situation, where you can´t hold your own. 

Hence,  some of those situations  trials and tribulations are the same things that keep us grounded and focused in this game of life. You can read of famous people that were homeless for an example of that.

Some of those ups and downs are the things that get us to “check ourselves” and keep up us focused in this game. 

It´s really up to us to take heed to the advice that´s being given, take it and truly run with it.

 A lot of the advice I give here either for Men or Women is what I like to call “The Harsh Reality”, because I´ve seen it firsthand.

  

Now it´s really up to you to take take it for what it is ( truth!) and take heed.

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" The Female Wing-Men"

What is a “Wingmen” ?

In my opinion:

A wingmen  is:

primarily a Male friend that helps you in social settings when you go out to clubs, bars, lounges and social spots to keep any “salt shakers” (females ) from messing up your game to the females you may be spitting at.

A "wing men" could be one of your boys that will take one for the team; so to speak that will “vibe” with the least desirable friend of the pack of females- that YOU would be spitting game to.

A “wingmen” could also be desirable dude to the ladies to bring attention to your circumference.

There is also Female “wingmen” that fall into this category, with similar traits.

A female “wingmen” is attractive platonic female friend that you have an excellent vibe and rapport with but have NO sexual desire for- whatsoever!.

Let me give you a quick true story on the “Female Wingmen” and how it works

I remember a while back NOT too long ago....

I went out to a upscale lounge slash club with a very attractive “female wing-men”-that was genuinely a platonic female friend.

I had NO sexual attraction for my "female wing-men" because our friendship and vibe was on another level; hence she was very attractive and desirable to most dudes

Now when I went out with this friend and stepped in to the club slash lounge 

I automatically felt the vibe from the ladies and noticed my peripherals and couldn’t help but notice the automatic intrigue from other Women when they noticed me with my "female wing-men" 

Now when I would vibe/dance with females they would automatically chose willingly gave me their number primarily because I was walking around with an attractive female friend.

So this was almost effortless for me to “pull” and “seal the deal” .

I even had my friend socializing with other females and bringing them to the booth where we were having drinks.

Something I noticed is that most females had lowered their guards; when brought to the booth, to a certain degree because of my "female wing-men" friend. 

How you can pull this off?

Make plans to go out to a social setting with an attractive female friend that you do NOT secretly want to bang, and you are absolutely sure without a trace of doubt that she may “catch feelings” if she sees you spitting game and other chicks, and may possibly sabotage you; instead of helping you.

Take her out with you vibe around the club when you socialize with females and dace. This will bring automatic intrigue from most females. You can even use your friend to introduce you to girls that you want to get with.

There is NO set template on this technique but I know it works and does wonders if you take you attractive “female wingmen” with you to social spots.

This is especially true if you are a Man of means, Woman are naturally competitive and will try and get you to choose them or chose YOU in a subtle way.

Any stories or comments are always welcome! 

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"Isolated In The Game"

Game is really useless,

You can sit there listen to all the pod-cast’s, read every blog, self-help book, and get all the best game slash advice from people that have gone through the situation you are in and the game will be useless if you can’t find a way to apply it. Take flight so to speak.

This is what training to an athlete is before he/she prepares for the super bowl, word cup, Olympics, heavy weight championship or just a determined phase to reach an long desired goal.

DETERMINATION IS KEY!

This reminds me of a self-imposed solitary confinement I had to put myself in. I don’t mean jail or any of that, but rather an isolated state of mind, after doing some soul searching and realizing how messed up the world is in its own way. I know it’s all how you perceive things, but I was put in a situation that forced me to do some deep soul searching for the sake of strengthening my spirit and upgrading my mind-set.

And I came to grips with myself to fathom that game is useless if you can’t apply what you have learned or meekly apply it.

One’s own soul searching is what separates you from the rest of the herd and polishes and grinds those rough edges forever. Most dudes never isolate slash “detach” themselves from “the world” women, technology, parties, society, bullshit  and countless  others to know what kind of ground they are paved under and where their path in life is really going.

Game is really  useless if you can’t isolate yourself in your own mind-set slash game!. And apply the game you are learning. 

I believe your subconscious picks up on at least one piece of game a day. It’s following trends engaging and bullshit, and the lack of “isolating yourself in your own game” that will keep you going in circles.

Game is useless if you can’t apply it. 

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"Love Or Oxytocin "

What is Oxtytocin?

Oxytocin  s a chemical produced naturally in every human brain to induce relaxation and giving us a warm feeling. It reduces blood pressure and stress, anxiety, (cortisol levels) in both sexes but particularly so in Women.

Oxytocin levels go up when someone else touches us both physically and emotionally. One study found that women holding hands with their partners, maintaining eye contact, and lying together all raised oxytocin levels. However, they found the most effective increase - over 20% - was achieved by stroking the hands, neck or back. 

Oxytocin And “Getting It On”

Oxytocin is linked directly to sexual pleasure, rising with sexual desire in both sexes Women are used to it; it makes them want to cuddle and talk. But it can send the man to sleep. The drowsy effect wears of fast in men as his testosterone rises, also high at orgasm, destroys it swiftly. He will most likely want to do something other than showing “affection” now on the other hand a woman may still want to snuggle and talk. Women take his behavior as a sign that he does not really love her - that he just wants sex, but this is just a biological difference in Men and Woman.

Oxytocin is higher in women than men, the main reason being that oxytocin interacts with the sex hormones already present in our system. The female hormone oestrogen stimulates its production and enhances its effect. It's lower in men because the male hormone testosterone inhibits its production and limits its action.

This is just another biological reason why men and women are different and why woman can’t be like men in the “sexual realm” woman who try to be “players’ will always hit snags like these and more.

You always hear some random Female say “ Well if men can have multiple sex partners and can ‘have fun’ Why can’t we? ”

This is just one of the reasons why men and women are built different biologically, not to mention everything else that’s tied into how some women can be that effects them on a deeper level than a man: Neurotic, Carry Emotional baggage, resentful, brain washed by other ideologies, side effects from birth control or other substances and the list is endless.

A lot of Women that I’ve come across have had to go throw what is called an “Attention Freak Stage” where she needs to act “hoochy” go out to night clubs and just have all the attention to her, this is perfectly fine if you must go through that stage in your early twenty’s or at some point in your life, but don’t make it a life challenge to “be like a Man” in the sexual world .

There is NO positive connotation that could possibly come out of that; other than false “props’ from other hood-rats.

Learn how to be like a thorough dude in every other aspect other than the sexual one. And you will be a respected lady that one could tip his hat to. And give true props to. 

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